From yet another book on singleness, I've read that there are two kinds of dating problems: not having any eligible men to date or having too many options. I am happy to report that I've recently changed categories from the barren drought of no-man-land to...ta da! Options! Yes, folks, I've crossed over to the other side. The flood gates have broken. I am dating.
Happy birthday to me...
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Congratulations! Do you have any tips for those of us who don't have any guys?
Try to get out of the house. I realized I was expecting to meet somebody, but wasn't going anywhere to meet them. Fortunately, my job makes meeting new people easy. Go out with a friend, or a friend of a friend. Mix it up. Instead of doing homework in the house, go to Starbucks. And be friendly! Get out of your "me" zone. Smile and make conversation with people.
(Let me know how it goes).
What do think of meeting people online?
It's a tricky situation. You just have to be careful and a little cynical. Don't believe everything you see and hear. But some people I know have found true love online. So don't discount that as an option. Anything's possible.
What do you do when you have someone hanging onto you, and they don't want to hear (or say) "goodbye"? I feel "chained into a relationship", and I don't want to be. Any ideas?
If you really want to get out of it-you will. Sometimes the comfort of even a bad relationship seems better than none at all. Be brave. Make a choice.
How is it going miss
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